READ – Tin Hatter Compares The Adoomys Fantasy To Religion.
OK, so bad enough she accuses Adam of bullying for pointing out that the Adoomy fantasy is foul and a disgusting view of Adam, TJ and Sauli. But when she compares their crap with organized religion? Sorry, that is just a step into insanity too far. I believe this is the final flail and attempt to keep their crap alive. But it won’t work. As Adam gets bigger and does even more events and playing and acting without TJ, reality shows their rubbish is just rubbish. But this ‘piece of work’ below is a total shit stain nutter.
D B (@dcsunset44)
Posted Sunday 12th August 2012 from Twitlonger
An open letter to Adam Lambert
You advocate tolerance and acceptance constantly, but
you’ve contradicted yourself badly with your ill mannered recent comments on slashers and groups within your fan base.
We all have opinions, but that doesn’t mean we get to pick on people.
If you start a bandwagon rolling don’t insult the people who jump on, some of them will jump right back off, and plenty of A listers have found themselves floundering around at the Z end after 1 ill considered comment. This time it will die down, but that may not always be the case. Every majority is made up of minorities, and singling out any of them for critisism and ridicule is bullying. You may not understand someones motivations, but unless they are actually hurting someone you have no right to lash out. Would you openly ridicule someone for believing in the Bible? or the Torah? You may think thats not the same thing, but to an atheist God is a delusion.
You also need to consider that there are people reading your comments who have severe self esteem problems, or other genuine mental health issues, and they may be deeply affected by your comments.
I’m not disputing your right to an opinion, but the mocking way in which you commented was unnecessary. There are better ways to express an opinion than by insulting your fans.
Fandom is essentially a complex closed society and the psychology of its members is varied and complex, the vast majority wont be hurt by what you say, but some will.
People place you on a pedestal and when you disappoint them they’ll remember that and tell potential fans that instead of spreading the word on your music.
If you cant filter yourself for the sake of your fans, do it for yourself. If there are people with real psychological issues reading your comments, its possible that the percieved insult could be the thing that tips them over into the realms of stalking, or damages their self esteem to the point of suicide.
I’m sure thats not what you intended, but you are a public figure and, whether you want them or not, there are consequences everytime you speak in public.
And Twitter is the biggest public place you could have chosen to speak in.
You’ve left a group of your fans feeling bullied and insulted because of the way they choose to escape their problems, thats not nice and it’s not right.
I’m not going to bite off my nose to spite my face, I like your music and I’ve no intention of turning it off because you had a bad day and were rude on twitter, but I do have a little less respect for you than I did yesterday, and thats the truly sad thing.
AND AN EXCELLENT AND BASED IN REALITY RESPONSE.
M. Rikki Connelly (@_mongoose)
Posted Monday 13th August 2012 from Twitlonger
@realstevegray An open letter to @adamlambert from a fan who is beyond shocked at @dcsunset44 comment that he’s a bully.
Bullying is a mean spirited act. Someone goes out of their way to be vicious. The act of going out of your way to hurt someone emotionally, break their spirit, destroy their heart.
Did Adam do that? Really????
No, darling, Adam stood up to you.. and that pissed you off. How DARE, rock star Adam Lambert decided that he’s had enough! Fans made him!
Let me give you fans a newsflash: we the fans didn’t make Adam, his talent made him.
He stood up and said enough and some women got mad.
Opinion is different than bullying. Because someone doesn’t agree with you and TELLS YOU THAT doesn’t make them a bully.
What is sad is Adam never mention a twitter name, never called you and others out. The reason I know who it all is because you drew attention to yourselves.
Adam also tweeted about the crap called “fanfic” and blocked some people.
Don’t call me a prude, I write gay erotic. And what I write is more x-rated than most fanfic I’ve read. Mine is also a hell of a lot better. lol.
My suggestion to those who write fanfic about Adam, put YOUR son or daughter name instead and write about them fucking or sucking instead.
Bet that makes you ill.
Now explain to me again why you can justify writing about him and Tommmy or Sauli or whoever? Even worse, I’m amazed at the balls of women who SEND it to him.
The same group of women insisting that Sauli is a beard and Adam is really in love with Tommy.
Adam is out and proud. Why in hell would he fake a relationship?
Even worse, do you realize how disrespectful you are to Tommy as a person?
You make Tommy a commodity of Adam, not a person. As if he is so stupid, he will sit in the background and put up with Adam taking Sauli on trips, etc.
I don’t know Tommy but I really don’t see him doing that.
If you want to see a bully, go to my daughter’s fb page. She came out as a lesbian and has been bullied by a family member, her own father and her ex-bf.
Or better yet… do you really want to see a bully???
Look in the mirror.